Nowhere Girl

“A journey through a realm of neurodivergence, which we explore reprehensibly seldom and address—still!—with a negligence that would be astonishing were it not so routine . . . Truly eye-opening.”—Anna Mehler Paperny, journalist and author of Hello I Want to Die Please Fix Me

“Nowhere Girl is at once lucid, captivating, poignant, terrifying, and ultimately uplifting. Once I opened it, I literally could not put it down. In captivating prose, Carla Ciccone conveys four decades of non-diagnosed ADHD—replete with unanswered questions, shame, trauma, dashed efforts at coping, and periods of despair—deftly interweaving current science into the story. This lifespan account surges with pain but also with hope, as an accurate diagnosis after becoming a mother has forged a hard-won sense of peace and acceptance, along with the discovery of optimal supports. Five stars, highest recommendation.”—Stephen P. Hinshaw, Ph.D., Distinguished Professor of Psychology, University of California, Berkeley; author of Straight Talk About ADHD in Girls

“We live in a mainstream and health culture that demands us to ‘fit in.’ This is the opposite of living an authentic life. Our bodies and minds are speaking to us and doing their job in raising their red flags. The question remains: are we truly ready listen? Ciccone’s candid memoir about being diagnosed with ADHD after years of feeling lost and ignored shines a light on the inconvenience of truth. That in itself is a sacred gift to make sure we head somewhere together instead of nowhere.”—Sophie Grégoire Trudeau, bestselling author of Closer Together

“Nowhere Girl is funny, wise, infuriating, and deeply moving. Carla Ciccone has done a stellar job of explaining how ADHD has affected her life and the lives of countless other women who have been overlooked and dismissed. I wanted to press this book into the hands of every woman who has ADHD or knows someone who does—in other words, all of us.”—Elizabeth Renzetti, author of What She Said

“This book goes beyond the usual clinical definition of ADHD. It describes girls who have come late to the ADHD party with a set of different symptoms. It also depicts what it is like to live with the disorder, and how the symptoms are often mislabeled as personality traits like laziness and disorganization. Ciccone not only helps women and girls with ADHD manage their symptoms but, more importantly, also places them squarely on the road to forgiving themselves.”—Catherine Gildiner, author of Good Morning, Monster