Love, Finally

Love, Finally

Untangling the Impossible Knot Between Mothers, Daughters, and Food

About the Book

An illuminating inquiry into the complicated relationship between what we eat, what our mothers taught us, and what we believe about ourselves—from the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Women Food and God

We see the world through our wounds, not as it really is. We see what we believe. It’s like seeing the entire world drenched in yellow when we’re wearing yellow-tinted glasses. Freedom comes when we take the glasses off.

For nearly four decades, Geneen Roth has been a trusted voice guiding women to give up dieting and end compulsive eating. Her books have sold millions of copies, and her workshops have months-long waiting lists. But only recently, when she was diagnosed with cancer, did she begin to understand how deeply entwined her feelings about her body are with her relationship to her mother. And, she realized, this is true for almost every woman: the voice inside our heads, the voice we use to talk to ourselves, the voice that criticizes the size of our thighs or the softness of our stomachs—these are all-too-often the voices of our mothers.

Roth was determined to untangle her sense of self from her mother’s judgement. Working with a blind, eighty-six-year-old wisewoman, Roth learned to distinguish between her mother’s influence and her own, truer inner knowing. Roth began to see that it was not what her mother said or did that made her unhappy, but what Roth believed about herself because of what her mother said or did. For the first time, Roth understood that peace does not depend on external circumstances—you do not need to wait for someone else to change—it relies only on what you yourself choose to believe.

Written in her signature style—funny, self-deprecating, and soulful—Love, Finally is Roth’s story of discovering the deeper awareness that set her free. This transformative, healing book is an essential roadmap for anyone who wants to repair their relationships with food, their families, and themselves. It is a stunning illustration of an essential truth: it takes a lifetime to return to where you’ve always been.
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About the Author

Geneen Roth
For over forty years, Geneen Roth has worked with thousands of people, helping them transform difficult relationships with food and their body. One of the originators of the intuitive eating movement, her pioneering approach uses food and eating as a doorway to spirituality (and to uncovering our deepest beliefs about being alive) and deeply personal and spiritual issues such as forgiveness and trust in the unseen that go far beyond food, weight and body image. Geneen is the author of ten books, including her newest, This Messy Magnificent Life, and NYT bestsellers Women Food and God, Lost and Found and When Food Is Love. Geneen has appeared on: Super Soul Sunday, The Oprah Show, 20/20, The View, The Today Show, and Good Morning America. More by Geneen Roth
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Anne Lamott
Anne Lamott is the author of twenty books, including the New York Times bestsellers Help, Thanks, Wow; Dusk, Night, Dawn; Traveling Mercies; and Bird by Bird, as well as seven novels. A recipient of a Guggenheim Fellowship and an inductee to the California Hall of Fame, she lives in Northern California with her family. More by Anne Lamott
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