*EXCLUSIVE PRE-PUBLICATION EVENT!*
It’s normal to have questions about sex. We all have them … like “How much sex should I want to have?” or “How often should I be having it?” And good questions should have good answers.
Join us on January 24 at 7:00 p.m. ET as Emily Nagoski, PhD, New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are, answers questions from her readers! Her new book,Come Together, is an illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship. Written with scientific rigor, humor, and compassion, Nagoski shows us what great sex can look like, how to create it in our own lives, and what to do when struggles arise.
To join the event and get exclusive access to Nagoski’s advice, pre-order Come Together from the retailer of your choice, then submit proof of purchase when registering. And be sure to submit your questions for Nagoski by January 19 for the chance to have it answered live*.
Everyone who submits their preorder receipt will also receive bonus Come Together digital content that will be emailed to you on January 30.
Come Together releases on January 30, 2024 and it is available for preorder everywhere books are sold. Signed copies are available to order at Book Moon Books in Easthampton, MA. Any U.S. preorder in any format (hardcover, e-book, audio) is allowed to attend the event. If you bought a ticket to an event on Emily’s book tour, that also counts as a preorder and you can upload your event confirmation. This event is free with your proof of preorder.
*Please note all questions may not be answered during the event.
The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
Emily Nagoski, PhD
“Emily Nagoski is a national treasure—helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives.”—Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed
In Come as You Are, Emily Nagoski, PhD, revolutionized the way we think about women’s sexuality. Now, in Come Together, Nagoski takes on a fundamentally misunderstood subject: sex in long-term relationships.
Most of us struggle at some point to maintain a sexual connection with our partner/s or spouse. And many of us are given not-very-good advice on what to do about it. In this book, Nagoski dispels the myths we’ve been taught about sex—for instance, the belief that sexual satisfaction and desire are highest at the beginning of a relationship and that they inevitably decline the longer that relationship lasts. Nagoski assures us that’s not true.
So, what is true? Come Together isn’t about how much we want sex, or how often we’re having it; it’s about whether we like the sex we’re having. Nagoski breaks down the obstacles that impede us from enjoying sex—from stress and body image to relationship difficulties and gendered beliefs about how sex “should” be—and presents the best ways to overcome them. You’ll learn:
• that “spontaneous desire” is not the kind of desire to strive for if you want to have great sex for decades
• vocabulary for talking with partners about ways to get in “the mood” and how to not take it personally when “the mood” is nowhere to be found
• how to understand your own and your partner’s “emotional floorplan,” so that you have a blueprint for how to get to a sexy state of mind
Written with scientific rigor, humor, and compassion, Nagoski shows us what great sex can look like, how to create it in our own lives, and what to do when struggles arise.